Preparing for the Holidays: Part 2 Mentally, Emotionally and Physically

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The holiday season is often seen as a joyful time filled with tradition, laughter, family gatherings, and celebration. But for many of us, it can also trigger stress, overwhelm, guilt, and a sense of “If only I could do more.” That’s why in Season 3 of our podcast series, with guest Dina Smith, we focus on how to intentionally prepare for the holidays so that you stay mentally, emotionally, and physically healthy, while creating sustainable organizing systems that serve your life. As your Life Organizing Strategist and founder of Xtreme Audacity, I’m passionate about helping you build the S.Y.S.T.E.M.s (Space, Time, Energy, Money) that support “The Organized Life.”

Mentally: Start with the end in mind

One of my most memorable tips from Dina was: decide what you want your holiday season to look and feel like, then work backwards. That means pausing now to envision your ideal holiday experience: fewer frantic tasks, more meaningful moments, deeper connection, less clutter, more calm. From that vision you reverse-engineer your plan, rather than falling into holiday “react mode.”

This fits beautifully with the organizing philosophy here at Xtreme Audacity: we create S.Y.S.T.E.M.s to Save You Space, Time, Energy, and Money. When you define how you want the holiday to feel (mentally clear, emotionally connected, physically energized), you can build the systems that get you there, rather than getting buried in chaos.

1. Mental health:

When it comes to the holiday season, mental wellness is foundational. Research shows this time of year carries extra risk of stress, anxiety, and feeling overwhelmed.

Key steps you can take:

• Accept how you feel. It’s okay not to feel perfectly festive. Acknowledge your emotions without judgement.

• Set clear time boundaries. Don’t over-schedule yourself; decide beforehand what events you will attend, when you’ll leave, what tasks you’ll do.

• Create your mental holiday “map” from the end vision. What do you want your December XX to feel like? What are you doing? Who are you with? Then work backwards and schedule in the non-negotiables (self-care, downtime, healthy sleep) first.

• Stay anchored in your values. When decisions come up (“Do I attend every event or agree to bake 100 cookies?”), ask: Does this align with how I want to feel this holiday season? If not, say no.

2. Emotional health:

The holiday season triggers emotions, family dynamics, traditions that no longer feel right, financial pressure, comparison. Dina emphasized how essential setting boundaries is: boundaries around how you spend your time, who you spend your time with, how you engage with family expectations, and how you protect your energy.

According to mental-health sources:

• Setting boundaries isn’t selfish, it’s an act of self-care that allows you to show up in a healthier way for yourself and others.

• Types of boundaries include: time (how long you stay at an event), financial (what you spend on gifts), emotional (what conversations you engage in), and tradition-based (which rituals you choose to keep or let go).

As your professional organizer, I say: Build a boundary system. For example:

• “I will attend the family dinner but will leave by 8 pm to protect my rest.”

• “We’re gifting only 3 meaningful items per child this year, everyone else participates in a Secret Santa.”

• “I am choosing one new tradition I love, and saying no to one old ritual that drains me.”

When you enact boundaries, you are reclaiming your holiday from obligation and chaos, and creating space to experience it the way you want.

3. Physical health:

Your physical wellness during this season often takes a back-seat. But it’s the foundation for all else: better sleep = better mood = better connection = better flow. Some tips:

• Maintain sleep routines and exercise habits even when your calendar is full. Skipping your regular routine of rest or movement may yield consequences.

• Keep an eye on your budget and food choices. Overspending, over-eating, over-committing can lead to physical exhaustion and emotional drain.

• Build physical space systems: for example, organize holiday décor so it doesn’t take hours each year. That Saves You Space, Time, Energy, and Money. (Yes, it’s part of your holistic life organization system.)

4. Organization meets lifestyle: The S.Y.S.T.E.M. approach

At Xtreme Audacity we believe “It’s a lifestyle, not magic.” So let’s apply S.Y.S.T.E.M.s that Save You Space, Time, Energy, and Money, to your holiday preparation:

• Space: Declutter first. Decide on the décor you will use. Store other items out of sight. Use storage bags or boxes (see product list below) so that when you go to decorate, you’re not hauling random bins through your home and getting stuck in chaos.

• Time: Reverse-planning from your end vision gives you a timeline. Mark “what must be done,” “by when it must be done,” “what can wait,” and “what won’t happen this year.” That frees you from trying to do everything and when to do things.

• Energy: Know your capacities. Say no to commitments that drain you. Prioritize rest, wellness routines, quiet time. Enforce your boundaries.

• Money: Set your holiday budget, gift budget, travel budget ahead of time and stick to it. Overspending is one of the drivers of post-holiday regret.

By applying these systems, you create an environment where you can enjoy the holiday and post-holiday season rather than endure it.

5. Action steps for the next 30 days

Here’s a simple roadmap to help you implement now:

• Week 1: Reflect on how you want your holiday to feel. Write it down. What three words describe it? Example: “Peaceful, connected, intentional.” Then reverse-map your calendar from that vision.

• Week 2: Set your boundary list. What events will you say no to? What traditions are you letting go of? What limits will you communicate to your family or yourself (time, money, emotional topics)?

• Week 3: Build your organizing systems. Clear out the space you’ll celebrate in. Decide how you’ll store décor. Create a gift budget. Block rest time into your calendar.

• Week 4: Review your physical wellness plan. Schedule workouts or walks. Decide your sleep routine. Choose healthy meals you enjoy so you’re not surviving on sugar and stress.

6. The emotional pay-off

What will you harvest at the end of the season if you do this work now?

• You’ll create real memories instead of being exhausted by obligation.

• You’ll feel supported by your own systems, rather than sabotaged by them.

• You’ll arrive at New Year’s Day with clarity, rest, and momentum, not regret or overwhelm.

• You’ll honor the truth that organization is not about perfection, it’s about alignment, serenity, and sustainability.

As you prepare, I encourage you to incorporate your faith, purpose, honesty, commitment, and accountability (your five core values) into everything you plan. These aren’t holiday buzzwords, they are your guiding lights.

Here are three products I recommend that tie directly into your planning, organizing, and wellness systems this season.

1. Christmas Planner - Holiday Checklist – A high-quality notebook to track your “To Do List, Budget, Food Menu & Shopping List for Xmas.” This will help you capture your holiday vision, reverse map, plan your S.Y.S.T.E.M.s.

2. Simplify Heavy Duty Holiday Décor Storage Bag – A durable storage solution to save space, protect your décor, and make the next season smoother.

3. Sterilite 64 Qt ClearView Latch Box – Perfect for storing and labeling Halloween décor or bulky costumes.

(This post contains affiliate links to Amazon from which I make a small commission with no extra costs added to you.)

Conclusion

When you shift from reaction to intention, when you start by deciding how you want your holiday to feel and then set the systems, boundaries, and supports to get you there, you step into a holiday season that honors the best of you. You honor your mental, emotional and physical health. You honor your S.Y.S.T.E.M.s. And you honor the truth that it’s a lifestyle, not magic.

Here’s to your most peaceful, purposeful, productive holiday season yet.

Cheers to a successful organizing journey!!

Until Next Time

Xtreme Audacity LLC

Charlotte Professional Organizer